Some Adoptive families want a search the origins of their children. They want to know how the mother or the father looks like or how much brothers and sisters the child has.
That is a very positive way to be respectful with the child origins.
BUT some of the families. Thanks to God a very few, do not want to give anything in exchange, even not a single picture of the child.
First of all in some areas is difficult people know the names but it might be useful to recognize a face. Not only, the worst comes when the family doesn't trust the searcher, I mean the biological family, they might think he is making business on them, he is forbidden the information he has but do not want to give, he is even stealing the money from the biological family.
This situation is sometimes really difficult and it might be even dangerous.
Instead if there is an exchange everyone is happy, have you ever imagine to get news from the child you couldn't take care once? and to know that is alive and doing well even if you do not have rights on the child any more?
That is a very positive way to be respectful with the child origins.
BUT some of the families. Thanks to God a very few, do not want to give anything in exchange, even not a single picture of the child.
This situation is sometimes really difficult and it might be even dangerous.
Instead if there is an exchange everyone is happy, have you ever imagine to get news from the child you couldn't take care once? and to know that is alive and doing well even if you do not have rights on the child any more?
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